THE PRAYER ROOM🌿
A Quiet Place to Lift Your Heart & Mind Before God
✨✨SEE SCRIPTURES OF NOURISHMENT AS YOU SCROLL DOWN BELOW
🙏🏼Welcome to The Prayer Room
A peaceful, faith-filled space created to help you pause, breathe, and meet with God.
Here, we seek Him together in honesty, in hope, and in expectation.
Whether you pray often or you’re learning to pray again, this room is a gentle invitation to draw near.
✨A Lifestyle of Prayer
Prayer is not a one-time event.
It is not a performance.
It is not a spectator sport.
Prayer is a lifestyle — a daily posture of the heart, a rhythm of communion with God, and a way of walking through life with peace, strength, and clarity.
God invites us not only to pray in moments…
but to live in prayer.
Here in The Prayer Room, we quiet our minds, strengthen our spirit, and allow the Holy Spirit to guide our steps — one prayer, one breath, one moment at a time.
This Week’s Prayer
PRAYER FOR STRENGTH & STEADFAST PEACE
Heavenly Father,
I come before You with a grateful heart, asking for Your strength to meet me right where I am. Lift every heavy place in my spirit. Steady my mind with Your peace. Remind me that I am never walking alone — You go before me, behind me, and beside me.
Teach me to guard my words and my thoughts this week.
Help me respond with grace, speak life, and walk in purpose.
Order my steps. Set my heart on You. Renew my strength daily.
I trust You with my worries, my needs, and my future.
Fill my home, my classroom, my workplace, and my relationships with Your presence.
In Jesus’ powerful and matchless Name we praise and we pray — Amen.
“The joy of the LORD is your strength.” — Nehemiah 8:10
PRAYER FOR OUR WORDS TO PLEASE GOD
Amazing LORD,
Let the words of our mouth and the meditation of our heart be pleasing to You this week.
Be our Rock when we’re unsteady and our Redeemer where we’ve missed it.
Fill our homes, classrooms, and conversations with Your peace and Your presence.
In JESUS’ Matchless Name we Praise and we Pray—Amen & Amen
PRAYER OF GRATITUDE FOR GOD’S FAVOR
Amazing God, thank You for growing us in Your Favor and Knowledge through Jesus Christ!
Thank You for teaching us to serve others as a demonstration of our devotion and gratitude to You.
We lift up every need and concern, and everyone’s salvation.
In Jesus’ Matchless Name we Praise and we Pray! Amen and Amen!
PRAYER FOR TAKING BETTER CARE OF OUR BODY DURING AND AFTER THE TEMPLECARE CHALLENGE
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for creating us — body, soul, and spirit.
Thank You that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit and that You care about every part of our well-being.
Lord, many of us are tired or stressed and not always feeding our bodies in ways that honor You.
We bring our habits, cravings, and weaknesses to You today.
As we prepare for this 21-day TempleCare Clean Eating Challenge, give us discipline, wisdom, and grace.
Help us see food as a gift, not a god.
Help us choose what nourishes our energy, clarity, and peace.
Strengthen those who feel discouraged in their health.
Encourage those who feel like it’s “too late.”
Remind us that as long as we have breath, it is never too late to start again.
We commit our bodies, appetites, and this upcoming challenge into Your hands.
In Jesus’ mighty name we Praise and we Pray,
AMEN.
TEMPLECARE PRAYER FOR DAY 1
“Father, thank You for this new day and this new beginning.
Renew our strength, calm our mind, and help us honor You in every choice we make today.
Guide our thoughts, steady our heart, and let Your peace cover our mind and body.
Give us grace to begin well, courage to continue, and joy in the journey.
We praise You, Lord, and we pray all of this in Jesus’ mighty, powerful, awesome Name — Amen and Amen.”
A Prayer for Peace — John 14:27
There are moments in life when our hearts feel heavy
—even when we don’t speak it out loud.
But Jesus left us a gift that the world can’t imitate:
“Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you.
Do not let your hearts be troubled.” — John 14:27
This is not the kind of peace that depends on circumstances.
It’s the peace that meets us exactly where we are,
steadies us, and holds us together.
Let us pray:
“Lord, we come together asking for the peace You promised.
Strengthen our hearts and quiet the places where we feel shaken.
Cover our minds from anxiety and protect our spirits from fear.
Remind us that we are held, we are guided, and we are never alone.
Let Your peace flow into our homes, our decisions, our relationships, and our steps.
We receive what You freely give — Your peace, Your comfort, and Your presence.
In Your Matchless, Peaceful Name we Praise and we Pray, Amen and Amen.”
May this prayer settle over every reader, every home, and every heart.
Jesus is the reason for the season
Jesus is the source of our peace
Jesus is the giver of John 14:27
Jesus is the anchor of the prayer
Jesus is the One calming troubled hearts
The candles = His light
The flowers = His beauty
The banner = His identity
The dimness = His stillness
The table = His fellowship
The prayer = His voice
🌿A Pause and Pray Moment!
Father, thank You for guiding us into a new week of grace, strength, and renewal.
Cover every Encourager reading this.
Help us honor You through TempleCare, through our discipline, and through the celebration of Jesus’ birth.
Renew our hearts, quiet our minds, and steady our steps.
In Jesus’ mighty, powerful, awesome name — Amen
🗣️Speak the Word Over Yourself
“Precious LORD, may You nourish my heart and renew my mind.
Let Your Word be life, strength, and peace within me today. May Your Words open the eyes of my heart to
see You and to discern Your Presence and Your Will. In Jesus’ Perfect Name, Amen and Amen.
🌿Reflection Prayer After the Completion of the 1st
21 Day Clean Eating/ TempleCare Challenge December 21, 2025
🙏🏼Heavenly Father,
Thank You for walking with us through this season of intention and care.
Thank You for teaching us how to slow down, listen, and become more aware—
not only of what we eat, but of what You are speaking to our hearts.
Help us to honor our bodies as Your temple,
to listen when You nudge us toward rest, balance, and wiser choices,
and to release guilt, extremes, and comparison.
Teach us to trust You more deeply—
to hear Your voice clearly,
to respect the signals You placed within our bodies,
and to continue forward with peace, not pressure.
We receive this next season with gratitude and expectation,
knowing You are doing something new—
and You are doing it with us.
In Jesus’ precious and perfect name,
Amen.
Love you much! 💛
🌿A Christmas Prayer of Peace and Presence
✨Heavenly Father,
We thank You for sending Jesus — the Light of the World,
the Gift above every gift,
the One whose name carries all we need.
As Christmas approaches,
quiet our minds, soften our hearts,
and fill our homes with Your peace.
Let the Wonderful Counselor guide our decisions.
Let the Mighty God strengthen our bodies and our steps.
Let the Everlasting Father wrap us in comfort and love.
Let the Prince of Peace reign over every room, every moment, every concern.
Renew our gratitude.
Restore our joy.
Remind us that hope has a name — Jesus.
We praise and we pray
in the holy and beautiful name
of our Savior born in Bethlehem, Jesus!
Amen. 💛
✨NEW YEAR’S PRAYER
🙏🏼Heavenly Father,
Thank You for Your mercies that meet us every morning—
not because we deserve them,
but because You are faithful.
As we step into this new year,
help us release what no longer brings life,
forgive as we have been forgiven,
and walk forward in the newness You offer through Christ.
Heal our hearts.
Realign our desires.
Teach us to live lighter—free from bitterness, fear, and the weight of yesterday.
May grace lead us,
truth ground us,
and love shape every step we take.
We trust You with what’s ahead.
In Jesus’ Beautiful, Wonderful name,
we Praise and we Pray, Amen and Amen!
📖SCRIPTURES OF NOURISHMENT
Your Spiritual Food Pantry — Feasting on God’s Word for Strength, Peace & Transformation
This page was born from prayer.
Long before Encouraging Mondays became a ministry, I was asking God to help my family read His Word daily — to feast on it, to be transformed by it, and to let His voice shape their hearts, minds, and decisions.
In prayer, the Holy Spirit said:
“They’re not going to open the Word right now.
You give it to them.”
And so I did.
Encouraging Mondays began with obedience — sharing the scriptures God placed on my heart.
Every week, God confirmed it, because the very scriptures He gave me beforehand were being preached that Sunday.
This space continues that calling.
Think of it as your Spiritual Food Pantry —
a place to feed your heart, strengthen your faith, renew your mind, and stay anchored in truth.
💛Opening Scriptures to Steady Your Heart
Before reading or looking up each Scripture, pause and invite the Holy Spirit to speak to you, guide you, and nourish your heart.
✨Isaiah 26:3
“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in You.”
🍀Proverbs 3:5–6
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.”
🌿Psalm 19:14
“Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O Lord, my Strength and my Redeemer.”
🔥Jeremiah 15:16
“Your words were found, and I ate them, and your word was to me the joy and rejoicing of my heart.”
🍉Scriptures for TempleCare & Healthy Living
1 Corinthians 6:19–20
Daniel 1:12–15
Romans 12:1–2
Psalm 103:2–5
🌿Scriptures for Peace
Isaiah 26:3
John 14:27
Philippians 4:6–7
Psalm 29:11
💪🏼Scriptures for Strength
Isaiah 40:31
Psalm 27:1
Joshua 1:9
Nehemiah 8:10
✨Scriptures for Wisdom & Clarity
James 1:5
Proverbs 3:5–6
Psalm 32:8
Colossians 1:9–10
📖Scriptures for Encouragement & Identity
Psalm 139:14
Ephesians 2:10
1 Peter 2:9
Jeremiah 29:11
✨Scriptures for Perseverance
Galatians 6:9
Hebrews 12:1–2
Romans 5:3–4
James 1:12
💛Closing Scriptures to Anchor Your Heart
✨Psalm 119:105
“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.”
💛Psalm 121:1–2
“I lift up my eyes to the hills—where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth.”
🌞Matthew 4:4
“Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.”
👂🏼Romans 10:17
“So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.”
✨ “Be still and know that I am God.” — Psalm 46:10
In a world that constantly pushes us to move faster, produce more, and carry heavier loads, this verse invites us to pause. Stillness is not weakness. It is trust. It is choosing to quiet the noise long enough to remember that God is in control—even when life feels uncertain, overwhelming, or unfinished.
Being still doesn’t mean giving up. It means releasing what we cannot carry alone and resting in the assurance that God is already at work, even in the waiting.
Prayer:
Lord, help us to slow our hearts, quiet our minds, and trust You in every season. Teach us to be still—not in fear, but in faith. Remind us that You are God, sovereign, faithful, and present in every detail of our lives. We place our concerns, our plans, and our futures in Your hands. In Your name Jesus we Praise & we Pray, Amen & Amen.
Love you much! 💓
📖10 SCRIPTURES ABOUT TRUE HAPPINESS ✨
🌟 “The Holy Spirit put something very clear in my spirit.
For the next 10 nights, I want to talk about true happiness — not the kind the world promises, but the kind that comes from God.”
“I want to make this plain:
The only One who can complete any of us and make us truly happy is Jesus Christ Himself.”
“When we don’t know that, we place unrealistic expectations on people — and people were never created to be our source.”
“Healthy relationships flow from wholeness — not from need.”
“When God is the source of our joy:
• marriages are protected
• friendships are healed
• single people are freed
• and emotional dependence is broken”
“No person can do what only God was designed to do.”
📖SCRIPTURE 1 OF 10
✨Psalm 37, verse 4
‘Delight yourself in the Lord,
and He will give you the desires of your heart.’
🌿 (“Happiness is found by delighting in God.
And when our delight is right — our desires begin to heal.”
“If you’ve been asking someone else to make you happy…
If you’ve been afraid to lose someone because you think your joy leaves with them…
This Scripture reminds us where joy actually comes from.”
“God does not compete with people — He completes us.”)
🌿🌿“True happiness begins and ends with God.
When we look to people for what only God can give, it burdens relationships.
But when God is our source, relationships are free to flourish.”
🙏🏼 “Let’s pray. LORD, reset our joy! Realign our hearts!
Teach us to look to You, our right Source!
In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
🌟“Healthy relationships flow from wholeness — not from need.”
“When God is the source of our joy:
• marriages are protected
• friendships are healed
• single people are freed
• and emotional dependence is broken”
“No person can do what only God was designed to do.”
📖Scripture 2 of 10
✨Psalm 16:11
“You make known to me the path of life;
in Your presence there is fullness of joy…”
🌿 (“This is where God takes us deeper.
Not surface happiness.
Not temporary relief.”
“Joy is found in His presence — not in outcomes, people, or circumstances.”
“When we stay close to God, joy becomes full — not fragile.
And when joy is full, direction and peace follow.”)
🌿🌿“True happiness begins and ends with God.
When we look to people for what only God can give, it burdens relationships.
But when God is our source, relationships are free to flourish.
🙏🏼Prayer
“LORD, draw us into Your presence.
Show us the path of life.
Fill us with the joy that only You can give.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
💛Monday Dec 29, 2025, TRUE HAPPINESS
🌿From delighting in the Lord (Psalm 37:4) to discovering fullness of joy in His presence (Psalm 16:11),
Scripture reminds us that joy is not something we manufacture — it is something we receive.
True happiness does not depend on people, outcomes, or circumstances.
It is anchored in relationship with God.
✨Tonight’s Theme: Joy That Strengthens Us: We learn this through:
📖Scripture 3 out of 10: Nehemiah 8:10
“The joy of the Lord is your strength.”
🌟(“This is where joy becomes functional — not just emotional.”
God’s Joy doesn’t just make us feel good.
God’s Joy sustains us.
God’s Joy carries us.
God’s Joy strengthens us even when we may not feel happy.”
“This is for the weary.
The discouraged.
The ones barely holding on.”
“When God is our joy, we won’t collapse under pressure — we will be carried through it.”
“God never promised easy — but He promised strength.
And that strength flows from His joy.)”
🙏🏼Let’s Pray
“Amazing LORD, thank You that we acknowledge
that You are our source of strength, and that Your joy strengthens us!
Thank You for lifting the weary places within us.
Thank You for allowing Your joy to carry us when we feel weak.
Thank You for promising us Your peace, joy, and strength
throughout this life’s journey with, by, and for You!
You said that in this world we will have trouble, but take heart because
You have overcome this world! (John 16:33).
We thank You that we no longer burden people
with helping us with only what You can provide, and
because of that, our relationships flourishes.
In Jesus’ name, we Praise and we Pray, Amen.”
💛TRUE HAPPINESS SERIES CONTINUES
As a reminder of our previous conversations on nights 1, 2, and 3:
True Happiness which Only God can give, leads to:
🌟 “Healthy relationships which flows from wholeness — not from need.”
“When God is the source of our joy:
• marriages are protected
• friendships are healed
• single people are freed
• and emotional dependence is broken”
“No person can do what only God was designed to do.”
Tonight, December 30, 2025
🌿Theme: Joy That Overflows Through Trust
📖Tonight’s Scripture 4 of 10 is Romans 15:13
“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him.”
🌈 “This is joy that is given, not forced.”
“God fills us with joy and peace — not when we strive — but when we trust.”
“When trust rises, joy follows.
And when joy overflows, hope becomes visible.”
“This is the bridge from inner healing to outward impact.”
“We don’t produce this joy — we receive it.”
🙏🏼Let’s Pray:
“Perfect God of hope, thank You for You.
Thank You that as we trust You, joy and peace overflows.
May we be carriers of hope, joy, peace and happiness!
In Jesus’ Beautiful name, Amen.”
💛True Happiness Devotional 10-night Series
December 31, 2025
🌿Over the first four nights of this series, we explored one foundational truth:
True happiness has a source — and that source is God.
From delighting in the Lord (Psalm 37:4) to discovering fullness of joy in His presence (Psalm 16:11), Scripture reminds us that joy is not something we manufacture — it is something we receive.
We also learned that:
Joy strengthens us (Nehemiah 8:10)
Joy and peace overflow as we trust God (Romans 15:13)
True happiness does not depend on people, outcomes, or circumstances.
It is anchored in relationship with God.
🌟We are now on night 5 of 10!
✨Tonight’s Theme is Rejoicing Becomes a Lifestyle When
Rooted in Christ: Anchored Joy for the New Year
📖Scripture 5 of 10: Philippians 4:4
“Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!”
🌈 “This is anchored joy!”
“Not because circumstances are perfect.
“Not because life is easy.”
“But because the Lord is constant!”
“Joy becomes a choice — rooted in relationship.”
“This Scripture sets the tone for stepping into a new year — grounded, steady, and secure.”
“When joy is anchored in a RELATIONSHIP with God, it cannot be shaken!”
🚶🏼➡️WE ARE STEPPING INTO THE NEW YEAR WITH UNSHAKABLE JOY!!! HALLELUJAH!
🙏🏼Let’s Pray!
Perfect “LORD, thank you for You and for
anchoring our joy in You!
Thank You for teaching us to rejoice — always.
May You carry us forward into the New Year with steady hearts
and unshakable joy!
In Jesus’ Powerful, Majestic name, we Praise and we Pray, Amen and Amen!”
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 HAPPY NEW YEAR!!
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼✨💛 We Praise God for this Gift of a Brand-New Year on this day, January 1, 2026!!!
✨As we continue our 10 Night Series on True Happiness, we are reminded in Scripture that true happiness
can only come from a genuine relationship with God!
Tonight’s Theme: Walking in Covenant with God is the foundation of True Happiness
📖Scripture 6 of 10: Psalm 144:15
“Happy are the people whose God is the LORD.”
📖This Scripture teaches us that true happiness is rooted in a covenant relationship with God,
not temporary circumstances. Therefore, ultimate joy isn’t found in material wealth, but
in a RELATIONSHIP with God!
The phrase in the passage of Scripture “whose God is the LORD” highlights the
unique covenant relationship God’s worshippers have with Him.
If we want to experience true happiness, we must acknowledge that God is LORD of our Life!
So together, let’s taste and see that the LORD is good (Psalm 34:8) through our personal
walk with and Faith in Him!
🙏🏼 Let us Pray
Perfect LORD, we acknowledge today that You are our God!
Thank You, our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ for reconciling us
back to God our Heavenly Father through Your shed blood for us. Thank you that now, we
are able to enter into a humble, holy, covenant relationship with You and receive inexpressible
joy! In Jesus’ Mighty, Worthy Name, we Praise and we Pray, Amen and Amen!
💛EXPERIENCING TRUE HAPPINESS
👏🏼👏🏼 January 2, 2026, And HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!
🌟THEME: Experiencing Joy through actively approaching God and Acknowledging Gods
Saving Work (Salvation) through Christ!
📖Scripture 7 of 10: Isaiah 12:3 NLT “With joy you will drink deeply from the fountain
of salvation”.
📖This Scripture teaches us that refreshing joy is found in God’s Salvation, His
abundant supply of His saving grace, mercy, strength, hope, and joy! Yes, we as
believers in Christ Jesus can drink an endless supply of God’s joy from His
well of salvation! Let’s drink from His well and receive this abundant, refreshing joy!
So let us keep in mind that “Joy flows when we drink from the right source.”
“When we drink from broken wells — people, approval, validation — we stay thirsty.”
🙏🏼 Let’s Pray
Amazing God, thank You for the deep endless wells of Your Salvation according to Your
Word. Today, we choose to draw from Your wells with joy instead of seeking satisfaction
in other sources! Help us to seek and know You and Your goodness every day! In Jesus’
Great and Joyful Name we Pray, Amen!
💛Night 8 of 10 TRUE HAPPINESS SERIES!!!
🗓️JANUARY 3, 2026
✨THEME: Joy Found in God’s Wisdom and Order!
📖SCRIPTURE 8 OF 10: 2 Chronicles 9:7
😊 “How happy your people must be!
How happy your officials, who continually stand before you and hear your wisdom!”
📖 “This verse shows us a different kind of happiness.”
“Joy flows from being positioned —
from standing where God places you
and listening to His wisdom.”
“This is joy that comes from remaining in alignment with God, submitting
to His wisdom instead of trying to invent our own.
😊 “When we listen consistently to God’s wisdom, deep everlasting joy follows!”
🙏🏼Perfect God, thank You that we acknowledge that You are the source of
wisdom, and that we acknowledge our need for Your guidance in all things.
May You open our heart, mind, and eyes to Your direction, helping us to see
and discern Your Will apart from the world’s noise! Thank you for joy as
we align ourselves under Your wisdom. In Jesus’ Powerful and Mighty
Name we Pray, Amen.
😊Night 9 OUT OF 10 TRUE HAPPINESS SERIES
🗓️JANUARY 4, 2026
✨THEME: Joy for Those Who Seek the Lord
📖SCRIPTURE 9 OF 10 PSALM 40:16
“May all who seek You rejoice and be glad in You.”
😊“This joy is for seekers.”
“For those who choose God — again and again.”
“Joy grows when seeking becomes a lifestyle, not a last resort.”
“This Scripture reminds us that God responds to pursuit with gladness.”
“When we seek the Lord, joy finds us.”
🙏🏼Let us Pray:
Wonderful God, thank You for our lifestyle of seeking
You. Thank You that joy comes when we are actively pursuing
You! Thank You for Your unwavering love for us and placing the
need and desire for us to be people after Your own heart!
In Jesus’ Perfect Name we Pray, Amen.”
💛NIGHT 10 OF 10 TRUE HAPPINESS SERIES!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
🗓️JANUARY 5, 2026
✨THEME: Contentment — The Foundation of True Happiness
📖SCRIPTURE: 1 Timothy 6:6
“Godliness with contentment is great gain.”
“This Scripture closes the series perfectly.”
“True happiness isn’t about getting more —
it’s about needing less because God is enough.”
“Contentment guards the heart from comparison, striving, and restlessness.”
“This is joy that stays.”
“When God is enough, joy becomes permanent.
True happiness is not loud, rushed, or fragile.
It is settled, rooted, and sustained by God Himself.
This is joy that flows from a heart aligned with God’s, and carries us
into new seasons with contentment and peace!
🙏🏼Closing Prayer (Series Completion)
Amazing God, thank You for walking with us through these nights.
May You seal this truth in our hearts:
That You are our source.
That You are our joy.
And, that You are enough.
In Jesus’ Amazing, Awesome Name we Praise and we Pray, Amen and Amen!”
💞Love you all much!
🌟Stay tuned for the 10-night TRUE FRIENDSHIP SERIES
which will begin on January 8, 2026! 👏👏🏼👏🏼
NIGHT 1 0F 10
JANUARY 8, 2026
💞TRUE FRIENDSHIP DEVOTIONAL SERIES
Flowing from God-Centered Living
Where Wholeness Leads the Way
✨THEME: True Friendship Begins with God at the Center
📖SCRIPTURE: Proverbs 18:24 (NLT)
“There are ‘friends’ who destroy each other,
but a real friend sticks closer than a brother.”
BUILD — Establishing the Foundation
Over the past several nights, we’ve grounded ourselves in a life-changing truth:
true happiness comes from God alone.
And when God becomes our source, something powerful happens—we stop asking people to carry what only God was meant to hold.
That’s where true friendship begins.
Not in need.
Not in pressure.
Not in emotional survival.
But in wholeness.
Scripture reminds us that while we may have many companions, there is One who remains constant, faithful, and close. God must hold the primary place in our lives—not because people don’t matter, but because they matter too much to be asked to replace Him.
When God is central:
Friendship becomes connection, not dependence
Love becomes shared, not demanded
Relationship becomes a gift, not a requirement
This is the foundation of true friendship:
when God completes us, we are free to walk with others without losing ourselves.
Tonight isn’t about examining past relationships or fixing anything yet.
It’s about alignment.
It’s about order.
It’s about letting God take His rightful place—so every other relationship can breathe.
👏🏼CLOSING PRAYER
Beautiful LORD,
Thank You for being our constant companion—the One who never leaves, never withdraws, and never asks us to perform for love.
Heal the places where we’ve leaned too heavily on people to meet needs that only You can fill.
Reorder our hearts so that You remain first, steady, and central.
Teach us how to enter friendships from wholeness, not lack—
from peace, not pressure—
from freedom, not fear.
As we begin this journey, help us trust that when You are our source, every relationship can find its healthy place.
In Jesus’ Magnificent name, we Praise and we Pray,
Amen and Amen
NIGHT 2 0F 10
JANUARY 9, 2026
💞TRUE FRIENDSHIP DEVOTIONAL SERIES
Flowing from God-Centered Living
Where Wholeness Leads the Way
✨THEME: When Wholeness Replaces Need
📖SCRIPTURE: Proverbs 17:9 (NLT)
“Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but
dwelling on it separates close friends...”
BUILD — From God as Source → How We Treat People
Last night, we established the foundation: God must be our source.
Tonight, we explore what changes inside us when that foundation is secure.
When we are not whole, relationships become fragile.
We keep score.
We rehearse what hurt us.
We hold onto offenses—not because we want to, but because we’re afraid.
Afraid of being overlooked again.
Afraid of being dismissed.
Afraid of losing people we believe we need to survive.
But when God becomes our source, something shifts.
We no longer need people to fill what God has already healed.
And because of that, we don’t cling to wounds as proof of love.
We don’t weaponize memory.
We don’t withhold forgiveness as protection.
Proverbs reminds us that love covers offenses—not because the offense didn’t matter, but because love is no longer desperate for control.
Wholeness changes how we love.
Forgiveness becomes possible—not forced—when we’re no longer afraid of losing people to feel whole.
👏🏼CLOSING PRAYER
Almighty God,
Thank You for being our source and our healer.
Expose the places where fear has caused us to hold onto offenses.
Free us from the need to protect ourselves through bitterness.
Teach us how to love from wholeness, forgive with wisdom, and walk in peace.
In Jesus’ Beautiful, Majestic Name we Praise and we Pray,
Amen and Amen!
✨NIGHT 3 0F 10
🗓️JANUARY 10, 2026
💞TRUE FRIENDSHIP DEVOTIONAL SERIES
Flowing from God-Centered Living
Where Wholeness Leads the Way
✨THEME: Consistency Over Convenience
📖SCRIPTURE: Proverbs 17:17 (NLT)
“A friend is always loyal…”
BUILD — From God as Source — How We Treat People — Forgiveness — Faithfulness
Last night, we learned that when God makes us whole, we don’t hold grudges like a scoreboard—we learn how to forgive from peace, not fear.
Tonight, we build on that with this truth:
Forgiveness protects love… and faithfulness protects friendship. It is not selfish, harmful nor destructive.
A real friend doesn’t only show up when it’s easy, exciting, or convenient. A true friend can be steady—especially when life gets messy. Not perfect.
Not always available. But consistent in heart, and consistent in honor.
And here’s something else that matters:
Faithfulness isn’t something you force. It’s something that grows when your heart is aligned with God.
When you’re secure in Him, you don’t disappear when people disappoint you. You learn how to stay honest, stay kind, and stay real.
Tonight’s gentle check-in:
Are you building friendships with people who value consistency… or only convenience?
👏🏼CLOSING PRAYER
Faithful God,
Thank You for being faithful to us. Help us to be faithful in our walk with You, and in our relationships with others. May we refuse to lash out in
harmful ways in our relationships. Shape us into friends who are steady, honest, and trustworthy. Teach us to show up with wisdom, love, and
wholeness. And may You give us wisdom to acknowledge when we are in toxic, imbalanced, harmful relationships. And give us the wisdom to
know that is not Your will for us.
In Jesus’ Name we Praise and we Pray,
Amen and Amen!
✨NIGHT 4 0F 10
🗓️JANUARY 11, 2026
💞TRUE FRIENDSHIP DEVOTIONAL SERIES
Flowing from God-Centered Living
Where Wholeness Leads the Way
✨THEME: The Influence That Heals
📖SCRIPTURE: Proverbs 27:9 (NLT)
“The heartfelt counsel of a friend is as sweet as
perfume and incense.”
BUILD — From God as Source — How We Treat People — Forgiveness — Faithfulness — Impact
Last night, we learned that true friendship isn’t built on convenience—it’s built on faithfulness!
Tonight, we build from that and talk about impact.
Because once someone is consistent in your life, the next question becomes:
Is their influence healing us… or draining us?
Scripture reminds us that the right friendship can refresh our soul—like incense and perfume—because it brings comfort, clarity, and joy.
Healthy friendships do not:
confuse our spirit
keep us anxious
pull us away from God
make us shrink to stay connected
The right friendships don’t replace God’s voice.
They reinforce it.
Tonight’s gentle check-in:
After being around certain people, do you feel more aligned… or more unraveled?
👏🏼CLOSING PRAYER
✝️Merciful God,
Thank You that You call us friend (John 15:15)! Help us to make an impact on Your Kingdom by and through our
walk with You! Oh God, may You refine our circles. Strengthen the friendships that bring peace, clarity, and life.
And remove influences that keep us in confusion. Make our friendships places of refreshment and healing. And
show us how to be a true friend from being deeply rooted and grounded in Your Word and in our faithful walk
with You!
In Jesus’ Faithful Name we Praise and we Pray,
Hallelujah! And Amen and Amen!
✨NIGHT 5 0F 10
🗓️JANUARY 12, 2026
💞TRUE FRIENDSHIP DEVOTIONAL SERIES
Flowing from God-Centered Living
Where Wholeness Leads the Way
✝THEME: Sharpening Without Wounding
📖SCRIPTURE: Proverbs 27:17 (NLT)
“As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend.”
💛BUILD — From God as Source — How We Treat People — Forgiveness — Faithfulness — Impact —Accountability
Last night, we talked about the influence that heals.
Tonight, we go one step deeper: accountability.
Because the right friends don’t just comfort you… they also sharpen you.
🔑But here’s the key:
Sharpening should never feel like destruction.
Correction given in love produces growth—not shame.
Truth offered with humility strengthens you—it doesn’t humiliate you.
When God is the foundation, accountability becomes a gift.
You’re not afraid of it… because you’re not building your identity on people’s opinions.
✔Tonight’s gentle check-in:
Do you have friendships where truth can be spoken with love—and received with humility?
🙏🏽Prayer:
Amazing LORD,
May You give us humble hearts that can receive truth without defensiveness. Teach us how
to correct with gentleness and love. Heal places where accountability felt like shame. Make
our friendships safe and growth filled.
In Jesus’ Awesome Name, Amen.
✨NIGHT 6 0F 10
✝🌈JANUARY 13, 2026
💞TRUE FRIENDSHIP DEVOTIONAL SERIES
Flowing from God-Centered Living
Where Wholeness Leads the Way
✝THEME: Love That Gives Without Controlling
📖SCRIPTURE: John 15:13 (NLT)
“There is no greater love than to lay-down one’s
life for one’s friends.”
💛BUILD — From God as Source — How We Treat People — Forgiveness — Faithfulness — Impact —Accountability—Sacrificial Love
🌈We’ve learned that God must be our source, forgiveness keeps love free, faithfulness builds trust, and accountability strengthens growth.
Now tonight we reach the heart of it:
✝Jesus defines friendship through sacrifice—not control.
💖True love does not manipulate.
It does not punish with silence.
It does not demand you prove yourself.
It gives with purity.
And sacrifice doesn’t always mean something dramatic. Sometimes it looks like:
listening when you’re tired👂🏽
praying instead of gossiping🙏🏽
choosing patience instead of pride😊
being present without needing credit😎
✔Tonight’s gentle check-in:
Is the love in your friendships freeing… or controlling?
🙏🏽Prayer:
Lord Jesus, teach us how to love like You. Remove selfish motives, manipulation, and fear
from our hearts. Help us give with purity of heart and love with wisdom. Make our friendships safe.
In Your name, Jesus We Praise and we Pray,
Amen!
✨NIGHT 7 0F 10
✝🌈JANUARY 14, 2026
💞TRUE FRIENDSHIP DEVOTIONAL SERIES
Flowing from God-Centered Living
Where Wholeness Leads the Way
✝THEME: Restoration, Not Rescue
📖SCRIPTURE: Ecclesiastes—4:10 (NLT)
“One person falls, the other can reach out and help.”
💛BUILD — From God as Source — How We Treat People — Forgiveness — Faithfulness — Impact —Accountability—Sacrificial Love—Support
🌈Last night, we that learned true friendship loves without controlling.
Tonight, we build into support.
Because friendship should lift you… but it should not replace your responsibility—or replace God.
Healthy friends restore, encourage, and help you rise.
But they don’t keep you dependent.
They don’t become your “savior.”
And they don’t let you stay stuck.
Real friendship says:
“I’m with you… but I’m also going to point you back to God, and back to your strength.
✔Tonight’s gentle check-in:
Are you supporting people in a way that restores them… or rescuing in a way that keeps them stuck?
🙏🏽Prayer:
Perfect LORD,
Teach us balance. Help us support without rescuing and love without enabling.
Give us wisdom to lift others while still pointing them back to You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
✨NIGHT 8 0F 10
✝🌈JANUARY 15, 2026
💞TRUE FRIENDSHIP DEVOTIONAL SERIES
Flowing from God-Centered Living
Where Wholeness Leads the Way
✝THEME: Guarding the Heart Through Wisdom
📖SCRIPTURE: 1 Corinthians 15:33 (NLT)
“…Bad company corrupts good character.”
💛BUILD — From God as Source — How We Treat People — Forgiveness — Faithfulness — Impact —Accountability—Sacrificial Love—Support—Discernment
🌈Last night, we that learned true friendship loves without enabling.
Tonight, we build into discernment.
Because not every connection is meant to stay.
Relationships can shape our thinking, our habits, our confidence, and our direction.
Relationships can have a positive or negative influence in our lives which is why
we need to practice discernment.
Discernment is not judgment.
Discernment is wise stewardship.
And sometimes wisdom says:
“This person isn’t evil… but this connection isn’t aligned.”
We’re allowed to protect what God is building in us.
✔Tonight’s gentle check-in:
Do your friendships strengthen your purpose… or slowly pull you away from it??
🙏🏽Prayer:
Perfect LORD,
We look to You to sharpen our discernment. May you help us choose relationships that align with
Your purpose and protect our growth. May You give us courage to release what is unhealthy and wisdom
to keep what is life-giving.
In Jesus’ Matchless Name we Pray,
Amen.
✨NIGHT 9 0F 10
✝🌈JANUARY 16, 2026
💞TRUE FRIENDSHIP DEVOTIONAL SERIES
Flowing from God-Centered Living
Where Wholeness Leads the Way
✝THEME: Clothed for Community
📖SCRIPTURE: Colossians 3:12 (NLT)
“Since God chose you to-be-the holy people He loves, you must
clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.”
💛BUILD — From God as Source — How We Treat People — Forgiveness — Faithfulness — Impact —Accountability—Sacrificial Love—Support—Discernment—Christ-like Character
🌈Last night we learned that wisdom protects the heart through discernment.
Tonight, we build on this: once God refines our circle, He also refines our character.
Because healthy friendships don’t survive without Christlike qualities:
compassion, humility, patience, gentleness, and forgiveness.
And here’s the truth:
We can’t build lasting friendship while feeding irritability, pride, or offense.
But when we’re clothed in Christ, relationships can breathe again.
Tonight’s gentle check-in:
What “clothing” do people feel when they’re around us—peace, patience, and kindness… or tension and criticism?
🙏🏽Prayer:
Amazing God,
Clothe us in compassion and humility. Teach us patience, gentleness, and forgiveness.
Heal the parts of us that react instead of reflecting. Help us to be safe people who build healthy community.
In Jesus’ Mighty Name, Amen.
✨NIGHT 10 0F 10
✝🌈JANUARY 17, 2026
💞TRUE FRIENDSHIP DEVOTIONAL SERIES
Flowing from God-Centered Living
Where Wholeness Leads the Way
✝THEME: Friendship as a Place of Restoration
📖SCRIPTURE: Job 42:10-(NLT)
“When Job prayed for his friends, the LORD restored his fortunes. In
fact, the LORD gave him twice as much as before!”
💛BUILD — From God as Source — How We Treat People — Forgiveness — Faithfulness — Impact —Accountability—Sacrificial Love—Support—Discernment—Christ-like Character —Restoration
🌈We’ve built from source, to forgiveness, to faithfulness, to influence, to accountability, to love, to support,
to discernment, to character…
Tonight, we arrive at restoration.
Job’s life began to shift when his heart was aligned—when pride and pain didn’t get the final word.
And Scripture shows that restoration and relationship are connected.
God uses healthy friendship as part of healing when:
hearts are humble
love is pure
character is real
and God is still the center
True friendship becomes a place where:
you don’t have to pretend,
you don’t have to perform,
and you don’t have to be perfect to be loved well
🟨BONUS SCRIPTURE:
📖Romans 12:10 — “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.”
🙏🏽Prayer:
Amazing God,
Thank You for being our Source and our Restorer. Thank You for the gift of friendship. May we always
seek to align our heart with Yours and guide us towards friendships that are in line with Your Will
for us. For the friendship bonds that have been broken, if it is Your Will, may You guide us towards
reconciliation and restore our bond in a way that glorifies You. May You give us wisdom and courage
to approach one another with love, patience, and grace, and help us to speak and listen with Your heart!
In Jesus’ Mighty Name, Amen.
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Encouraging Mondays is more than a website — it’s a growing community of faith, reflection, and peaceful transformation. If God has been speaking to your heart through these messages, I’d love for you to stay connected throughout the week. Each platform gives you a unique way to receive encouragement, grow spiritually, and walk in God’s perfect peace.
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